January 30th is Young Carers Awareness Day. So who’s a Young Carer and where can they get help and support?
A Young Carer is someone under 18 who provides care and support, usually for a relative. In some families children as young as 5 are known to help look after someone.
Many young carers don’t realise that they’re a carer. They just see themselves as someone who helps out a parent, brother, sister, grandparent or other relative. Caring is something that they just ‘do’ because someone they care about needs help.
The type of care a Young Carer can give can be things like cooking, cleaning, shopping. Or personal care like helping someone have a bath or use the toilet. It might be emotional support if the person they support has depression or another mental health condition.
The amount of help a Young Carer gives can vary from a few hours a week to several hours a day.
It can be a lot of stress, especially when you think that most young people only have to worry about school or college, computer games, watching TV or hanging around with their mates.
The Carers Trust reckon across the UK, there are over 166,000 young carers in the UK, with recent research showing as many as 1 in 5 children secondary school children may be a young carer.
Many Young Carers say juggling caring with school or college causes stress and pressure. 1 in 20 say they miss school because of their caring role.
Does this sound like you or someone you know? Keep reading or visit or Young Carers section for help and advice.
Steffany, age 9, is a Young Carer who lives in Derbyshire with her mum, Sarah. Sarah suffers from a brain tumour which means she has fits and severe migraines.
Sarah has good and bad days, often her condition is worse in the morning which means Steffany has to help her mum as well as getting herself up and ready for the day.
Because of her illness, Sarah struggles to get out of the house to take Steffany to school in the morning. When Sarah has a bad day Steffany doesn’t go and stays at home and look after her mum instead. When she does make it to class, Steffany worries about whether her mum is okay at home without her there to help.
Steffany helps Sarah by cooking tea and making breakfast. She also does cleaning, shopping and washing. She also helps by sitting in the bathroom with her mum while she washes, as she’s worried she may have a fit when she’s in the bath.
Steffany has seen her mum have many fits. When they happen she has to fetch her mum’s medication and sit with her until the fit passes. When it’s been a really bad one she’s had to call for an ambulance.
Sarah describes Steffany as a ‘mini adult’ who takes on the role of a Young Carer most days. There’s just the two of them who live at their home, so most of the time Steffany is the only person around to help. Understandably, she worries about her mum’s condition and Sarah admits she would really struggle without the support Steffany gives her.
Steffany doesn’t find it easy to talk about her feelings but she is being supported by the Derbyshire Young Carers service. The service offers her the chance to meet other Young Carers and take part in activities. She can also talk to her Young Carers project worker if she needs to.
Help and support for Young Carers living in Derbyshire
Thankfully Steffany is getting some support. But there are many more young people in Derbyshire with similar stories. So where can Young Carers go for help?
Derbyshire Young Carers Support Service
The Derbyshire Young Carers Service is provided by Derbyshire Carers Association. They can offer support, information and advice for young carers and young adult carers (under 25).
The Young Carers Service can offer:
- Someone for Young Carers to talk to in confidence
- Actives and social groups
- Help to get a break from caring
- Help with talking to other professionals like school staff, health staff or social workers
- Advice and help with managing school, college, uni, getting a job and careers advice
- The chance to meet and talk to other young carers
- General advice and information.
You can find out more about the Derbyshire Young Carers Service on our website or just give the service a call on tel: 01773 833833.
- If you’re a Young Carer you can just ring the number yourself or ask someone you trust to do it for you.
- If you know a Young Carer, tell them about the service and give them the number.
Other help for Young Carers
They are lots of other national and local services who can help Young Carers. This includes school nurses and telephone helplines like Childline. Find out more in our Information for Young Carers Section.
There is also support for Young Adult Carers aged between 18 and 25.
Get involved with Young Carers Awareness Day
The Carers Trust have lots of posters and resources that you can download to help raise awareness.
Get involved on social media by using the #CountMeIn and #YoungCarersAwarenessDay hastag – you could share a link to this blog :)
Here at Carers in Derbyshire we’ll be posting about #YoungCarersAwarenessDay on our Facebook page over the next few days so make sure you like our page and join in.